Thursday, February 10, 2011

The First Impression

That is the first image u left for others. 
You can say nothing, you can do nothing, but it will still leave people an impression of the image you carry. 

24th. 
Through out those years, what image i left for others?
And what should I give others in the future. 

Rebel...I think most of the people in secondary school would agree
Act like a boy....definitely this is agreed by most of the people 
Big Sister... don't know is it because of my size in those days
Strong women.....Tough women....
This is a heavy word. A very heavy description, indeed, HEAVY.

What trained me to be one? Until these day I already feel numb to tell again. 
But if there is a choice, will I prefer to be one? 
Ya, definitely....but can I have a little privilege, a little rewards, a little request?
I would like to be a strong and tough female who can be pampered, can be taken care of. 
'You are very independent, you are very tough, you are very special, you are different, you are...'
it's been not less than 100 times I'm praised in this way. My pleasure =) 

But if given a choice, can I choose to be the one who can hide in side an even stronger arm?  
The biggest joke ever is: men thought a strong and tough one doesn't deserve protection. 
What is the point of being strong then? while I lose all the privileges that a girl deserves? 

Biasa dah, tapi biasa pun mimpi nak dapat protection jugak. 
I'm just a species of chromosome X. 

By the way, 
Happy Chinese New Year and Happy 9th Chinese New Year. 
 


3 comments:

Anonymous said...

OMG, this is totally my inner voice!
I used to think in this way many times, but it's hard to find a balance in between the 'tough girl' and 'seeking for protection girl'. Unless you have another half who is super dependable.

But guys like this, normally won't like tough girl, so...

But I still proud of you, proud of myself! We are at least 'different'!
Think about that, what if we are not tough at all, and we don't have anyone to rely on? At least we are tough, we have ourselves, our shelf!

Owhh, I'm so proud of you <3

miapatra said...

thanks for your support!
I'm so happy you with me! haha

and Yes, people changed their mind set on women and expecting they act in a different way as what men do, but in the other hand we are hoped to be like the old time pathetic women.

no doubt, we women still remaining the old gene that hoping to be pampered, and relying on someone, but circumstances force us to change.

this is just a game of 2 opposite sex. 两性拉锯战,谁也不愿输给谁。

xy7235 said...

"The biggest joke ever is: men thought a strong and tough one doesn't deserve protection. "

I've experienced this before.
People think that you are strong enough to afford the pain. Only those girl who are weak deserved to be pampered.

I can't see any point there.
Cheers for all tough woman, F*** those superficial man~!